tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post5029637657277927941..comments2023-03-10T06:13:03.053-07:00Comments on FlyingWG: The Triggers That Lead To PainSandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09175077917096988524noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-3466285270742040342012-07-24T17:35:18.898-07:002012-07-24T17:35:18.898-07:00I hope you don't mind me stopping by to commen...I hope you don't mind me stopping by to comment. I just stumbled across this post and it touched my heart immediately. A good friend of mind recently lost her husband and I have been trying to find ways to help her. There is a great book out by Patricia N. Muscari titled, "I'm a Widow, What Now? Embracing Life after Loss" that I feel will be helpful to her. However, I am going to recommend your blog. I think reading posts that she can relate to will be very helpful. Your post was truly inspirational to me. Thank you for sharing.<br /><a href="http://www.yourfuturewithin.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.yourfuturewithin.com</a>Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05957358850375701366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-11055908219142711932012-07-07T07:01:38.850-07:002012-07-07T07:01:38.850-07:00what a beautifully written post, sandy! i feel for...what a beautifully written post, sandy! i feel for you...there are songs that bring me fond memories and make me cry.<br /><br />my warmest hugs!<br /><br />xoxoBetty Manousoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08549686306725800208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-29380168676589389862012-07-04T06:15:32.173-07:002012-07-04T06:15:32.173-07:00Sometimes it is hard to remember that I'm aliv...Sometimes it is hard to remember that I'm alive and in the moment when a trigger pulls. The world tilts, I can't breathe and suddenly my vision swims as life falls away leaving only the emotion. Sometimes its for a moment and sometimes I fight for hours to claw my way out of the tunnel. Having lost my sister and best friend, I tend to be a little over anxious about my connections and surviving another loss should it happen (even though I know at SOME point it will). <br /><br />Your post is beautiful and clearly packed to overflowing with love for TJ. I miss him for you. <3Duckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06195603673076986036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-36509479474936387402012-06-29T10:23:59.496-07:002012-06-29T10:23:59.496-07:00Thinking of you <3 <3 <3Thinking of you <3 <3 <3Nikky44https://www.blogger.com/profile/06725453458357123087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-44460047497375693722012-06-27T07:13:34.750-07:002012-06-27T07:13:34.750-07:00Another lovely tribute to TJ, my friend, as well a...Another lovely tribute to TJ, my friend, as well as a beautifully written post about your triggers/feelings. You are an excellent writer. You bring your readers' emotions to the surface, and we are all able to relate to you in some way. I love your posts! And I adore you! XOXOsTerri Sonodahttp://terrisonoda.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-41636073435913690902012-06-26T05:16:03.448-07:002012-06-26T05:16:03.448-07:00Beautifully written, Sandy. There are songs that m...Beautifully written, Sandy. There are songs that make me cry now about my husband -- so I can't imagine how I would feel if he was not here. I feel for you hon. I really do.Nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06116903234641971344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-1111858944501798992012-06-24T21:43:04.699-07:002012-06-24T21:43:04.699-07:00Love, love, love the photo of TJ & Shiner!. Ye...Love, love, love the photo of TJ & Shiner!. Yeah, they seemed to be in their own little world.<br />Big hugs to you! For those of us left behind...it's a daily record that may repeat in our heads, but we do have a choice to put a new record under that needle.shabby girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12340974325967555770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-52202335684889958922012-06-24T09:23:11.255-07:002012-06-24T09:23:11.255-07:00English is my second language and I do know what a...English is my second language and I do know what an EX is. How dumb is that?! He was your life, he died way too young, it must be very difficult and sad. Still you are getting stronger, you are doing some brave stuff, like visiting the shack. I doubt you will ever stop being sad when something triggers it, but it is OK. It is a part of your life, but not your whole life.Ingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02924736131382149056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-2141441335670154402012-06-22T09:33:40.618-07:002012-06-22T09:33:40.618-07:00Ooooo, My ... O my ohhhhh.
This song by Toby Ke...Ooooo, My ... O my ohhhhh.<br /><br />This song by Toby Keith was played at Kay's funeral.<br /><br />I am crying crying crying. Crying...<br /><br />I love you, Sandy. xxMy Inner Chickhttp://myinnerchick.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-74593409800991379922012-06-22T04:03:48.209-07:002012-06-22T04:03:48.209-07:00Beautifully written. I hope that the triggers wil...Beautifully written. I hope that the triggers will be less painful over time. <br /><br />Of course he's not your exhusband! How annoying that people would say that!Lisa @ Two Bears Farmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03464839163693785901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-68197329071240390062012-06-22T00:12:57.409-07:002012-06-22T00:12:57.409-07:00Do I ever know what you're talking about. I ju...Do I ever know what you're talking about. I just passed the two year mark since my husband dropped dead in front of my eyes, without any warning and no symptoms. Triggers are my enemy and as you say, they come out of nowhere and are never expected. It is so hard to walk this walk after being part of a couple for 53 years. I still feel lost. And while I know the Lord is with me on this journey, I feel like half of me has disappeared.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04516228383672051397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3112835656136732522.post-78093542824673160552012-06-21T20:31:31.716-07:002012-06-21T20:31:31.716-07:00i can only imagine it is often like two steps forw...i can only imagine it is often like two steps forward, one step back for you. none of it smooth or even, but often pushed into the forefront by the triggers you've desscribed...TexWisGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641962051044162710noreply@blogger.com